Tuesday, September 14, 2010


Things turned out to be very complicated lately exactly just like the labyrinth above.
It looks like a maze where there's only a single path to reach the center.
There are 3 spirals and each of them represents one person.
It concerns about relationship and also friendship.
Each affects the other, and the other affects the next,
And the world is full of stories, but the stories are all one.

I wonder why can't friends be honest to each other whenever there's a problem occurred in between.
It doesn't matter who create the problem first but to find a solution and settle it, right?
If both sides refuse to take initiative then the problem will just remained there until it solve.
Don't you feel tired to pretend in front of each other as if there's nothing happen?

It's going to be a hard time when there are so many consequences after the words are said.
I know it sounds easy by just saying it, since I'm not the one who is undergoing all these.
Sorry for not being in the shoe.
There's nothing wrong for being who you are.
Just accept who you are and revel in it.

Every problem has in it the seeds of its own solution.
If you don’t have any problems, you don’t get any seeds.

Are there any other option to choose besides lover and enemy for a male & female?
Is it necessary that both of them must choose between one?
There's one more option available which is friend.
But I doubt that not all people will choose that after the confession fails or even breakup.
Perhaps some of you might choose to avoid that particular person after that incident cause it feels awkward when you see each other.
No doubt, you're going to lose a precious friend if that's what you want the ending to be.
The pain of loss can be very intense.
Or perhaps you might already expected what's the outcome going to be after the confession.
Then why not just let it go and and it could be a better ending.

Love is unconditional, if you truly love someone does not mean have to be together as a couple.
But you just want them to be happy and fulfilled whether they are alone or with someone else.
When you really love someone, you will be able to let them go to find their own happiness.
I'm sure my buddy who's leaving for UK soon will agree with what I'm saying over here.
Hope my words here will enlighten those of you who stuck in this labyrinth.
Sacrifice is a part of life. It's supposed to be.
It's not something to regret. It's something to aspire to.

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